Parenthood. what is it all about? July 2008

Perhaps many of my cousins and of cours my sis too, may wonder, what's the big hurry?

Believe me, that's what I thought so too.

But being a parent is really a leap of faith.

Think about it. Before getting married; isn't the idea of getting married redundant?

Its really not about the HDB or combine income tax. Its a leap of faith to say, lets try doing it together officially.

Its the same. Before having Ethan, I am children-phobic. I wanna go out and enjoy the so called "2 person world". But seriously guys, take my advice, part of getting married is to have kids. The moment your kid is born, you will get a purpose of why you are married. Why both of you are together. And also, you get a common bond as a couple too.

OK, so you'll have to skip the midnight movies. Whoopiedoo.. and the exciting backpacking holidays. And depending on how many kids, you'll have to X4 the cost of all your holidays. But, what you get back is... FULFILMENT. The joy of family. The laughter when your kid does the silliest thing. And the warmth when your kid comes over and hug you for love and safety.

No money can buy you that fulfilment.

This thing about family is really not old fashion and new lifestyle. Many couples don't get it. If you feel that you can get the same fulfiment from getting a pet, or going on a long holiday, or rewarding yourself with a long awaited gift, or maybe even buying that penthouse up on The Sail; then you're kidding yourself.

Life is not about your own fulfilment. Life is about moving on. Its about what you are and who you arel but more so, how can you impart that little bit of your unique self to another being.

I have come to enjoy time spent with my kids. My recent trip in Thailand was a rewarding experience. I get to share what I love about Bangkok with my son. And there will be many chances in future (I hope). And I am happy... THESE FULFILMENT.. no $$ can buy... as the Visa advert says.. its PRICELESS...

I hope I did not piss anyone off. I just want to share these happy thoughts with you guys. My family.

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